case of the ex


why do exes pose a threat to a current relationship?

no matter how stable the couple is, once the subject of the ex is mentioned, expect somebody's eyebrows to raise.

this is one of the reasons why it's best to keep your distance from your ex. while i'm becoming open to the idea of remaining friends with an ex, i don't want to be the cause of an argument between him and his gf. she will never, and i mean N-E-V-E-R understand that when the guy and i meet up for coffee, we're really JUST having coffee.

"why do you have to meet up and have coffee with her?"

"because we're friends. that's what friends do."

but she'll never get that. she refuses to.

and i, being the good friend, would disappear.

so i understand if a guy chooses his gf over a friend. but i feel sorry for him. he might just lose lots of friends.




C,
i wish you well...my friend.

one day, i'll see you in australia. and hopefully she WILL understand everything.

kiss your kids for me aight? :)





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